I haven't been able to write this before as I guess I have been in denial about Stephen's passing.

I still can't believe it but I need to write something on the day of his funeral.

Stephen was a huge part of my life for many years.

As an office holder and then president of the Law Society of England and Wales, Stephen was always there for me. I lent on him for his wisdom, his support and his kindness which he always gave- consistently and with such generosity. Whenever I had a major decision in my professional life, Stephen was the first person I would turn to. I so valued his judgement and wise counsel.

Stephen helped me through so many challenging issues and for this I was, and will continue to be, forever grateful.

Indeed, Stephen always wanted to help me do my job well. As officer holder and President, Stephen introduced me to so many relevant stakeholders (no one had a better little black book!). And it was done so nicely- 'Christina, can I please borrow you for a minute?' was a frequent phrase at events and then I would meet someone amazing. Stephen was a real gentleman and a consummate professional always.

We also had so much fun together! I remember a crazy journey to Oxford when I had been speaking at an event (with Stephen present) in London and we had to catch a late train to Oxford (sharing a bottle of red en route!).

When we arrived, we couldn't get into our hotel as it was so late so we had this ridiculous episode of trying to raise someone in the hotel and being stuck outside at gone midnight! Luckily, we were able to have a laugh about this. I always felt safe, protected and cared for with Stephen.

And I know he was a great friend and mentor for many other women. Indeed, Stephen was a real male champion for women- a genuine feminist.

He helped me to engage the IBA wit the Women in Leadership campaign and led much of the Male Champions aspect. He was relentless in his commitment to the cause, although always modest and unassuming in his approach. He made a huge difference and furthered the gender balance cause in the UK and across the globe.

He was such an important part of the IBA and of the Women Lawyers Committee Advisory Board (which we sat on together). Stephen even helped my daughter to get a place with Helen in her school in Ghana- an experience that has formed the person she is today.

Many tears have been shed by all the women Stephen has supported, befriended, helped and assisted over many years and I want to pay tribute to him on behalf of us all.

With much love to Stephen's beautiful family and hoping that knowing how important he was to me, might, in a tiny way, give you some positivity.

Christina Blacklaws